The government of the passions is another branch of self-denial to which children should early be habituated; and so much the rather because, in an age when reason is so weak,the passions are apt to appear with peculiar force and violence. A prudent care should, therefore, be taken to repress the exorbitances of them. For which purpose it is of great importance that they never be suffered to carry any point by obstinacy, noise, and clamor, which is indeed to bestow a reward on a fault that deserves a severe reprimand.
--Philip Doddridge (1702-1751)
quote taken from Free Grace Broadcaster #204